Designing a Future Us with Strengths in Mind for Couples
Design
ing Your Future Us
A free side-by-side strengths guide for ADHD couples
When ADHD is part of your relationship, it’s easy to keep troubleshooting the same few problems, and for one partner to become the one who’s always in the wrong.
This guide gives you a different place to start: what each of you brings at your best.
You’ll each take the free VIA Survey of Character Strengths, map your results side by side, and talk through one challenge together using five simple reflection questions. It takes about 45 minutes.
This guide helps you...
- Identify the strengths each of you contributes to your relationship.
- Understand where you're in sync, where you balance each other, and where gaps create tension.
- Explore a key challenge in your relationship, whether communication, responsibilities, or emotional regulation.
- Use 5 guided questions to help you stay focused on strengths instead of fault-finding.
- Walk away with a shared action plan: one strength to build on, one personal goal, and one team support strategy.

